A transformative online ceremony for healing developmental trauma and liberating the creative power of your Inner Star Child
- Date/Time: To be rescheduled in the near future. Feel free to to my newsletter for updates and check out my scheduled ceremonies
- Can’t attend?: You can still receive the healing & activation if not on Zoom
- Cost: $77 CDN
- Minimum age to receive the healing & activation: 9 years ~ please read the FAQ’s pertaining to children
- Minimum age to attend on Zoom: The legal age of majority (adulthood) in the country you reside in
- Further Details & Registration: Please click the link at the bottom
Your Inner Star Child is a force of light! Unbounded in love, determined, carefree, brave, adventurous, wildly imaginative, this archetypal presence is mightily real in your heart and soul. She is the purity of your soul star essence, the face of your innocence, and the creative carrier of your gifts and purpose. In many ways, mysterious and known, your Inner Star Child is essential to your livelihood and direction; for she knows what the responsible, practical adult has forgotten.
Your Inner Star Child remembers your divine origins, filled with Fairies and Angels, flying Unicorns and Turtles. He doesn’t understand why you don’t remember these things, and can get frustrated at how lost you are in the material, routine world, that, really, is not what you want. He takes a stand, sometimes fiercely, as you know children can, for the beauties and wonders of life, seen and unseen, easily overlooked. It’s why young children slow us busy adults down and ask us to peer at a flower or caterpillar, at the blue moon and purple sky.
Limits make no sense to this bundle of wonder. Her world, and your true home, is the realm of endless possibilities, where things can manifest in an instant, and one is surrounded by Joys upon Joys of Godly Creations. This Infinite Playground is what your Inner Star Child dearly wants you to remember. She longs for you to grab her eager hand and fly above the concrete, callous world into the colourful, fluid, exceedingly beautiful numinous. Into that which always sings Yes to Life!
Your Inner Star Child wants you to know that this boundless Playground is your divine inheritance; and that you have come to this world to embody it, to awaken it from within your genetic universe, and know it as authentically You. And, with your adulterated help, he longs to share these riches with the hungry masses, who, without realizing it, also long to viscerally remember and open and dance in Life’s Infinite Playground! To experience life not as a dull job, not as a superficial routine of swinging from to-do to to-do, but as an exciting, wondrous, and sometimes challenging, sacred ceremony of Creation.
You cannot live these possibilities without the help of your wise and abundantly resourceful Inner Star Child. You are meant to do this together, as a unified force, serving and dancing in co-creative spirit with the All.
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For most, however, and likely you, some healing and activation (empowerment) support is necessary to bring the Inner Star Child to life in adult awareness. Having been denied for so long, taught that its true, vibrant colours do not belong in the grey, dull landscapes of this plane, your Inner Star Child has likely learned to hide in shame and fear. To not be too bright and alive.
In my personal journey of healing, and in supporting many others in their own, I have witnessed how the wounded Inner Star Child shelters and shields where many scared children seek refuge — in their room under the blankets or bed; in a dark corner, crouched and facing the wall; or wandering aimlessly outside, lost and confused. Neglect, physical abuse, sexual abuse, abandonment, and other adverse experiences at home, school, and elsewhere, teach the Inner Star Child that life is not safe, and she is unworthy, unwanted and unlovable. A most dreadful experience for the attachment-driven child who, if lost of all hope, falls into deep, dark unbearable aloneness.
I remember in grade three, while standing in the schoolyard, suddenly feeling that who I was as a spirited child could not continue on in the world before me. It was as if I was standing at a great threshold, and I had to now cross over into a much bigger and darker world that had little interest in, or care for, who I really was. Sound familiar? I felt I had to leave me behind, the Star Child I was, and become stronger, tougher, smarter, better — a responsible little adult. I had to become who I was not to fit in and survive.
You may relate to my story. Most of us learned that being our Big Bright Nature was too much, and therefore unsafe and unwelcome. We had to dim our fire to blend with the masses. We had to deny our soul star essence, the purity of our Angelic presence, to cope and survive. This is the loss of innocence that few avoid — the loss of our in-essence. More accurately, it is a disconnect, which is one way to understand trauma. It’s a forgetfulness, a veil, as we leave parts of ourselves behind, the parts no longer safe to playfully express. For me that day in grade three, authentic, childlike parts stayed behind that schoolyard threshold, as I bravely stepped into being a little adult.
In truth, our innocence is always here, within us. Because it’s invincible, and therefore intarnishable. And because it’s who we are, in Truth. Our innocence may be concealed by our wounds and programming, it may be turned from and discounted as unreal or unsafe. BUT our Holy Spirit, the innocence we are, where our pure Inner Star Child feels most at home, shines on, even as we experience the painful illusions of darkness.
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In this ceremony, you receive a direct transmission of Starlight, a pure broadcast from the Light Realms that lovingly and wisely knows how to heal and empower your Inner Star Child. Opening to these Stellar Rays, you experience a precious opportunity to re-turn to innocence; and to bring your Big Bundle of Love and Light, and all her gifts, to life, thereby bringing more life to you.
This ceremony is a unique invitation to awaken this Great Seer of Possibilities from the seeming safety of shadows and limits, so you live less apart from the Great Sea of Life you are. You embrace your Inner Star Child more fully, heart-to-heart, which inspires you to live, work and play in harmonious divine union, as a creative team, in Life’s Infinite Playground, interwoven in and as your soul star essence.
Listed below are four general stages to healing and empowering your Inner Star Child, and thus yourself. When reading them, see this path of growth not so much as a linear, step-by-step system, but one that is fluid, dynamic, inter-mingling, with one stage blending into the other, and with the likely possibility that you may repeat certain stages, or the entire cycle.
1. Healing
Your Inner Star Child receives healing for the pain she carries stemming from such adverse experiences as physical / sexual abuse, neglect, abandonment, birth traumas and more. The darkness of her dormant state, which is one of being frozen, shamed, confused, lost, fearful and alone, is met with such beauty and love, the tenderness and healing wonders of Starlight. These painful imprints are transmuted, and gradually, she is bridged from fearful isolation to greater degrees of activation, connection and joyous liberation.
2. Activation
As your Inner Star Child begins to heal, the immanence of his soul star essence is activated. It comes to life! The Mystery & Magick of Starlight — which children have always been drawn to — gently, lovingly and patiently uses creative means to spark his curiosity, captivate his imagination, and invite him to come out and play! Like we see with all healthy children, your Inner Star Child gradually returns to a naturally exuberant state of dreaming, exploring and engaging — of being active! This includes reconnecting with his inner parent — the adult you!
3. Integration
As your Inner Star Child becomes increasingly activated and active, her presence fills your adult body and heart. She takes more energetic space, which healthy children do so unbridledly. Her growing presence is an invitation to the inner parent to take notice, listen, and bond or attach with her in ways not done before. This means that the inner parent, too, must be activated — you must be ready and willing to protect and lovingly hold your Inner Star Child, to become her / his sacred guardian.
With enough time a sacred union forms, where your two hearts come together and melt into a beautiful long-awaited connection. When this happens, a third unifying Heart forms that surrounds and animates the two of you, like a Big Heart Bubble!
4. Liberation
Once this sacred union is consummated, the Whole Human Being is liberated. Born is the Universal Child whose presence is unlimited and can extend across the Cosmos exploring all sorts of magickal and joyous possibilities. Your Inner Star Child naturally invites adult-you into vaster dimensions of the Playground of Life, just like all joyful children do with their parents. Together, as one, you travel far and wide, hand-in-hand, heart-to-heart, the light of your Inner Star Child’s soul star essence shining brighter and brighter, the integrated adult-child-you reclaiming your precious innocence and remembering your origins as an unfathomable Star Being.
And in this divine remembrance, this awakening, A Star is Born!
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Like my other ceremonies, you are encouraged to write healing empowerment intentions. However, for this one, I recommend you include your Inner Star Child in the intention setting process. Both of your intentions for healing and empowerment are important, as you and your Inner Star Child are active participants in this journey.
I recommend no more than 15 intentions for each of you. The linked registration page at the bottom offers further guidance. I also recommend reading the many linked pages above for extra clarity. In particular, this article I wrote listing 26 adverse childhood experiences, and this article on child adversity, much broader in dimension, may be helpful.
Regarding your Inner Star Child’s intentions, here are two similar questions you can ask him or her:
- What do you want from this ceremony? (to experience, feel, change?)
- If you could wave your magick wand, what would you LOVE from this ceremony? This question lightens the intention setting process, making it inviting, safe and fun; and it speaks to your Inner Star Child’s wondrous, curious nature.
With pen and paper nearby, I invite you to find a safe and quiet place to close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Imagine your Inner Star Child at any age — you at an earlier time. It could be more than one age/time during this inner journey.
Now, when it’s the right moment, a safe and inviting one, you can ask your Inner Star Child to have a conversation. Be sure not to rush or push the process. Allow your Inner Star Child to take the necessary sweet time to open to you, in his or her own way. Once you are speaking, you can explore together the many possibilities of healing, empowerment, connection and liberation — the many ways your Inner Star Child would love to be graced by Starlight.
There is no right way to do this. Trust your heart, and also your childlike imagination.
Finally, please know that it’s the Great Honour & De-Light of the Stars to bestow their loving radiance upon you and your Inner Star Child; to ignite the twinkling light of the Star you forever are.
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